Nasty Reality

I will talk about the story of Nasty Reality that I’ve been going through recently. The first story started right here: Self-Confidence, the thing that makes you confidence about yourself. The thing that you need to defend yourself from insult and mockery from your friend, the point is for your self-defense. What if there isn’t something about yourself to make you confidence about yourself? Well the answer to that question is only you who know it, try to find something in yourself that difference from the other people, cause what makes you different is actually makes you special. I know I’m the right person to tell you this, because honestly I still can’t find something inside me that makes me different from the other people. I just gotta keep finding it. Another thing, don’t let all the insult and mockery from the people near you let you down. According to my experience, there are two options to handle those people. First, just shut up and don’t pay a single damn thing that your friends talked about you, they will embarrass of themselves at last. If they not embarrass, then they have no shamed. Second, if you brave enough you should fighting back those people who insulted and mocked you with the same hurtful level of their insult and mockery, if it less then they will not feeling it, if it more there are possibilities that they will mad of you, that’s what mean by Nasty Reality. The people who always give us the insulting and mockery, they just love to give us the insulting and mocking to us without realized it might be hurt someone’s feeling. But, when we hit back their insulted and mockery they get mad because of it, damn it! That’s one of the behavior that I called bad immature, they say people who says the word “immature” to describe fun people , are the boring people who doesn’t know how to have fun, well that’s one of the bad immature. There are actually two kinds of immature behavior, first Bad Immature is when you act fun and you’re making the other people hurt because of act that you did, and that’s not cool. Good immature is when you act fun and you’re not making the other people hurt because of act that you did, and that’s cool. So, I just want to remind to all the people who make a lot of insulting and mockery to the other people, if you all don’t want to be insulted and being mocked by the people who being insulted and mocked by you, then you must not insulted and mocked people in the first place you idiot!

The second story started right here: Yesterday, I heard one of my friends tell the other friend of mine that “there is no friendship that not have mutual benefits to each other or both sides, to these day everything has to be reciprocal”, when I first hearing that stuff honestly and I get upset and ask to my friend: “so, are you expecting something from our friendship?” and he say: “well yeah, everything has to be reciprocal at these day”. I hate the thing that my friends just said to me at that time, and what I hate the most is they laugh after they said all that stuff. I was so upset and sad at the same time, but I can’t say anything about it because they will say some non-sense argue and I’m sick of hearing it, so I just leave them and keep my upset and sad feeling in my heart. What I don’t understand is why there is a people who speak such thing, they like speak that there are no honest and pure friendship anymore at these day, they were lose belief of friendship, I know they were. But I’m not gonna be like them, I promise. I will keep and defend on the name of friendship that friendship are still honest and pure without expecting some mutual benefits to each other or both sides, friendship are not like that. Excuse me, if you think that friendship are like that then you’re not know anything about friendship. All the nasty reality that I talking about right now is 100% real, and remember whatever you do just don’t lose belief of the thing that you believed and the thing that you sure is right. Always keep believe and sure.