Apology

Some people say that “Apology is a symbol of weakness,” well I do not agree with that statement at all. Just because you apologize to someone, doesn’t mean you’re weaker than the people who you apologize to, otherwise you’re stronger than them. You’re brave enough to admitted and accepted that you were wrong, and you need to apologize to them. And it’s not wrong if you admitted and accepted that you were wrong, I mean we are human not perfect like God right? Human make a mistake and could hurt each other even though without we realize it, but if God himself who’s perfect can forgive us for our mistakes, who we are kidding that we (Human) can’t forgive the mistakes that made by ourselves, Human, who’s not perfect. But if you feel that you don’t have to apologize to someone, if you feel that you’re not wrong, and then you don’t have to apologize. I said that “if you feel” not “if you think,” because sometimes our mind couldn’t realize and won’t admitted that we are wrong, our mind is too prestige to do that. But our heart will not lie to us if we do something wrong, you’ll get the feel that you gotta fix it while you can before it’s too late and it become more complicated. But if you made a mistake and your heart couldn’t realize it and won’t admit it, then there’s something wrong with your heart. I don’t what it is, because the only person than know your heart more than anyone is yourself. But here’s the most important thing that you have to do when you’re apologize is that you gotta mean it and promise you’ll never do the same mistake in the future ever again, if you’re not, no one promising you that you will get a second chance. Made you mistake to be your experience, and learn from your experience, because experience is the most valuale lesson that you will ever get it in your life, its not the best teacher, but its the best lesson.

“Apologize while you can if you made a mistake, before it’s too late even though it’s never too late” – Redy Pajero